Does it help to seek revenge in a cheating relationship? No, it just pulls you down into the murky waters of guilt! In a committed relationship, when your partner cheats, you want to seek revenge so it hurts. Maybe seeking an eye for an eye; a tooth for a tooth. Does the thought of inflicting the same kind of cheating pain tastes like the sweetest revenge. Usually not.
You want to even the score by making them understand the pain they rained down on you. Or maybe your self-esteem requires emergency treatment, and you need to know if you’re still lovable and desirable. The bottom line is you feel overwhelmed, and need help. The Office of The Path To Well-Being is here for you. A marriage counselor/coach or Marriage counseling center can provide the tools and techniques to get a couple through this difficult time.
Looking for a way to patch up your wounds, you search for relationship advice.
Should you revenge cheat? No, it may not accomplish what you want. To understand, let’s look at your motivation, the possibility of repairing your relationship, and your own recovery within the marriage.
Explore Your Motivation For Thinking About Revenge Cheating.
It’s true that your partner messed up, but your cheating won’t fix the wounds that remain. Remember that — especially in love — two wrongs don’t make a right or healing of wounds. What if that eye-for-an-eye theory works in reverse? They may use your revenge cheating to justify their initial cheating. And they may overlook something very important…
Instead of revenge start to repair
Understand the needs of one another
Get back the courting phase
All these steps and a skilled marriage counselor/coach and counseling center can help you fix the relationship. Effective communication and knocking down barriers can be accomplished.